As Russia’s ongoing attack on Ukraine began, Wendy Farrell stayed alert from afar.
With her husband Ryan, the mother of five, of Springfield, Missouri, had adopted a daughter from Ukraine in 2013. She later built a bond with a Christian orphanage outside of Lviv, in western Ukraine, collecting money and clothes for them stateside but also escorting friends and family on trips over to engage with those she affectionately calls her “kiddos.”
“We wanted to be a family, and that is what we have cultivated,” she tells PEOPLE.
“It has started,” she wrote of the war. “We need to pray.”
She did more than that. Within 24 hours Farrell had a plane ticket for travel to Poland. Plans she’d hatched with leaders of Ridgecrest Baptist Church in Springfield, which sponsors her work, converged with those of Nikolay Shagarov — director of Children’s Path, an orphanage outside outside Lviv and the main beneficiary of Farrell’s patronage — to ferry the children to safety.
Wendy Farrell with some of the Ukrainian orphans that she helped flee to Poland.Maciek Nabrdalik
“I did not breathe a sigh of relief,” Farrell says, “until they were across the border.”
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Now among the more than 2 million children who have fled Ukraine, according to refugee experts, the orphans of Children’s Path are staying temporarily in a summer camp dorm an hour south of Krakow. Farrell and those who assist her nonprofit are there to offer smiles, hugs and hoped-for familiarity rooted in their many prior visits to see and play with the kids, while also seeking U.S. visas to provide them a longer-term place of refuge if needed.
“I feel more comfortable because I know these people,” says Leah, a 15-year-old who lived at Children’s Path. (The group asked that no last names be used.) Of Farrell, Shagarov adds: “She has a huge heart.”
But Farrell is not overseeing an adoption pipeline to the U.S.; she wants to support the Ukrainian children in their homeland, to help them learn to break cycles of abuse and neglect that put them in the orphanage in the first place. At their emotional reunion in Krakow, “we were grieving for what was lost, and entering this in-between, and knowing that life will probably never be the same,” she says. “But also thankful that we were together, and we were safe.”
Farrell, 39, started on her path after following the blog posts of a family friend who was adopting a teen from Ukraine. Through them, she learned of another girl, who at 15 was on the cusp of aging out of Ukraine’s orphan-care system and hoping to find a family.
“I just felt like God was telling me we were supposed to adopt her,” Farrell says.
Her husband agreed, and they brought home Alona, now 24, in 2013 after a month spent with her in the Ukrainian region of Crimea, treating her like the tourist she’d never been in her own land.
“Through her,” Farrell says, “we fell in love with her country.”
Six months later Russia overtook Crimea, fueling Farrell’s concern about the high stakes now. In addition to supplies delivered to Children’s Path on Farrell-led trips three times a year, 1U Project’s American volunteers assist her with summer camps and other activities, and bring orphans to the U.S. for eight-week exchange programs to spend time with families that Farrell recruits.
“The only picture they’ve really had of families is traumatic,” says Farrell. “We want them to see what a loving structure looks like so when they grow up, they know how to be good parents to their own children.”
Wendy Farrell serves a meal April 5 at the dorm outside of Krakow, Poland, where she has helped to temporarily house orphan refugees from Ukraine.Maciek Nabrdalik
Shielding them from the trauma now unfolding in their own country is a more urgent goal.
“When I think about unknowns in the future, I feel a little bit scared,” says Myroslav, 17, another teen who lived at Children’s Path.
Lena, a 26-year-old caregiver at the orphanage who fled with the group, says of the children: “When we told them about traveling to Poland, for the little kids it was like a little journey. But I also saw fear. Every time our distance grows, we feel like we left our hearts in Ukraine.”
But she adds, “We knew we would meet our friends [in Poland]. It made us more peaceful.”
After one night spent in a Krakow hotel, and a few more nights split among Airbnbs, the group learned about the dorm space from a Polish restaurant owner who overheard their Ukrainian accents and offered his help. For now the space is free but short-term. (Through connections back in Lviv, they’ve learned that Children’s Path being used as a safe house for other refugees fleeing the country.)
With the youngest children now enrolled in a local school in Poland, the oldest still receive lessons over spotty internet from teachers in Ukraine. Basketball, volleyball and snowball fights fill off-hours, offering distractions from a reality that worries more than just the children. “If we can go home,” says Shagarov, the orphanage director, “will my home still be there?”
Farrell won’t permit herself that thought. “These children are like extended family to me,” she says. “I don’t know when, but I believe one day they’ll be able to go home.”
To support 1U Project’s Ukrainian orphan relocation effort, visit1Uproject.org.
source: people.com
