Monroe and Moroccan Scottlive a much different childhood than their motherMariah Careydid.

“It’s hard, but I try to keep them grounded so they don’t think everything is just handed to them,” the pop star, 49, tells PEOPLE of her 8-year-old twins in this week’s issue, on newsstands Friday.

“Right now it’s like, ‘I want this,’ and I’m like, ‘You’re asking me for something that costs $20.’ I can’t even imagine having, like, one dollar as a kid because we didn’thave money going around,” Carey continues. “So they have to appreciate those things.”

When the singer-songwriter was growing up, her family moved throughout the New York City area. And today, she strives “to make thebest of whatever situation I’m in.”

“Sometimes I had a lot of fun, sometimes I didn’t,” Carey recalls.

Carey recently visited Camp Mariah, the career-awareness summer camp for low-income middle-schoolers in N.Y.C. that she sponsors through theFresh Air Fund, to celebrate its 25th anniversary.

She also brought her twins, whom she shares with ex-husbandNick Cannon, to play at the camp for the day.

“They’re a lot, but they give me so much love in return. I wouldn’t be the same person without them,” Carey says of the siblings, whom she affectionately calls Roc and Roe. “I think Nick and I have done pretty well in co-parenting, staying friends with each other so that we can talk.”

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Last year, Carey opened up about her childhood when sherevealed her bipolar diagnosisexclusively to PEOPLE.

“People who escaped the life I grew up with don’t want to go backward,” she said at the time. “My environment as a child didn’t just intensify my disease, it impacted my willingness to seek a long-term solution for it.”

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For more from Mariah Carey, pick up the latest issue ofPEOPLE, on newsstands Friday.

source: people.com